Sekarang kau hilang tanpa jejak
Tak tahu dimana
Sekarang kau hilang tanpa jejak
Tak tahu dimana kau berpijak
Akankah kau masih ingat padaku
Lelaki yang selalu menunggumu
Hujan pun turun tanpa ampun
Usap kenangan yang tersusun
Apakah kau akan kembali padaku
Lelaki yang pernah sakitimu
Langit takkan bisa tunjukkan
Dimana kau ada
Mungkinkah dia kesepian
Dimana kau ada
Editor : Dian Sukmawati
Atlet Catur Muda Indonesia Juara di Yunani
saco-indonesia.com, Sebanyak 11 pecatur
muda Indonesia di bawah usia 17 tahun memborong medali dalam kejuaraan "World School Chess
Championship 2013" dan juara utama the 5th Alexader the Great 2013 di Chalkidiki Yunani.
LONDON, Saco-Indonesia.com - Sebanyak 11 pecatur muda Indonesia di bawah usia 17 tahun memborong medali dalam kejuaraan "World School Chess Championship 2013" dan juara utama the 5th Alexader the Great 2013 di Chalkidiki Yunani.
Sekretaris Pertama Fungsi Pensosbud KBRI Athena Jani Sasanti kepada Antara London, Kamis, mengatakan kejuaraan catur dunia yang berlangsung sejak 7 berakhir 14 Mei itu diikuti 567 peserta dari 30 negara termasuk negara yang kuat dalam olah raga catur yaitu Rusia, India,Inggris dan Turki.
Pada World School Chess Champions 2013, Indonesia menyabet juara kedua untuk kelompok usia U-9 yaitu Diajeng Theresa Singgih dari Jabar dan juara ketiga kelompok U-15 yaitu Aay Aisyah Anisa dari Jatim, sedang peserta Indonesia muda lainnya berada di ranking 10 besar juara.
Sementara pada Kejuaraan the 5th Alexander the Great Open Championship 2013 yang berlangsung di tempat yang sama, Grand Master (GM) Indonesia Irene Kharima Sukandar memenangkan juara utama turnamen bergensi tersebut.
Duta Besar RI untuk Yunani Benny Bahanadewa menyampaikan kebangganya atas prestasi yang dicapai pecatur muda Indonesia yang telah mengharumkan nama Indonesia di ajang internasional dan menunjukkan Indonesia memiliki banyak GM yang akan mengantarkan Indonesia sebagai negara pecatur dunia.
Keikutsertan peserta Indonesia berasal dari peserta Olympiade Olah Raga Siswa Nasional (02SN) Kementerian Dikbud RI dan PB Percasi, mengikutsertakan 11 pecatur muda katagori U-9, U-11, U-13 dan U-15.
Sementara itu, Wakil PB Percasi Yenny Chaidir mengungkapkan kegembiraannya atas kemenangan Indonesia dan akan terus berpartisiapsi pada setiap kejuaraan international dengan harapan Indonesia dapat meningkatkan prestasinya di ajang percaturan dunia.
Seri Kejuaraan School Chess Internasional 2013 diselenggarakan FIDE Greece berlangsung sejak 2005 dan Yunani menjadi tempat penyelengaraan pertama kejuraan ini tahun 2009. Pada tahun 2011, kejuaraan tersebut berlangsung di Polandia. Indonesia berhasil merebut lima kali posisi juara pada periode 2005-2009.
Editor :Liwon Maulana(galipat)
KARANG TENGAH-FATMAWATI STUCK 2 JAM
saco-indonesia.com, Hujan deras yang telah mengguyur wilayah selatan Jakarta telah membuat arus lalu lintas semrawut. Kemacetan
saco-indonesia.com, Hujan deras yang telah mengguyur wilayah selatan Jakarta telah membuat arus lalu lintas semrawut. Kemacetan tak hanya terjadi di jalan utama saja namun juga berimbas ke jalur alternatif menuju Jakarta.
Seperti yang telah terjadi di Jalan Karang Tengah, Lebak Bulus Jakarta Selatan. Jalur yang biasa digunakan sebagai jalan alternatif warga yang ingin ke wilayah selatan Jakarta ini juga macet parah.
Bahkan, kendaraan roda empat yang telah melintas di wilayah itu stuck selama dua jam. Kondisi cuaca di wilayah itu yang gerimis kian telah menambah acakadutnya jalanan ibukota di pagi ini.
"Saya juga sudah dua jam stuck di sini. Saya mau ke arah Pondok Labu," kata seorang pengendara Eko kepada Okezone, selasa (4/2/2014).
Namun untuk jalur sebaliknya terlihat lancar. Sayangnya kepadatan kendaraan yang telah melintas di Karang Tengah tidak dibarengi dengan petugas pengatur lalu lintas. Sehingga jalanan semakin mampet.
Saat ini hujan juga telah mengguyur wilayah Sawangan, Depok. Akibatnya, Jalan Raya Sawangan yang biasa digunakan warga dari arah Parung dan Sawangan untuk menuju Jakarta juga menjadi tersendat.
Editor : Dian Sukmawati
REMAJA TODONG PENGUNJUNG ANCOL
saco-indonesia.com, Seorang anak di bawah umur telah ditangkap oleh anggota Polsek Pademangan saat mau merampok pengunjung Ancol
saco-indonesia.com, Seorang anak di bawah umur telah ditangkap oleh anggota Polsek Pademangan saat mau merampok pengunjung Ancol di Jalan Budimulia RT12/12, Pademangan Barat, Jakarta Utara, Kamis (2/12) sore. Dari tangan, So yang berusia 16 tahun petugas telah berhasil menyita sebilah pisau yang digunakan untuk menodong korbannya.
Kanit Reskrim Polsek Pademangan, Iptu Suseno Adi juga mengatakan, aksi percobaan perampokan itu telah terjadi, sekitar pukul: 17.00 sore. Sarmin yang berusia 25 tahun , saat itu ingin pulang ke rumahnya di warga Jl. Mangga dua VIII No.35 Rt.13/05 Ancol, Pademangan usai bermain di Ancol.
Saat melintas jalan kaki, dari belakang So telah menarik baju korban sambil menodongkan sajam ke tubuhnya.Rupanya, So juga sudah membuntuti korban sejak dari dalam Ancol.
Tersangka telah minta korban untuk menyerahkan tas selempang dan dompetnya. Namun sial, bukannya menuruti ancaman tersangka, Sarmin malah melawan. Terjadilah perkelahian antara korban dan So.
Perkelahian itu telah dilihat oleh warga sekitar Rudi yang berusia 18 tahun. Dia telah membantu korban untuk melumpuhkan So dan ditangkap warga lalu dikeroyok.
Dari tangan tersangka asal Banten itu, petugas telah menyita 1 tas slempang warna coklat dan sebilah pisau. Akibat dari perbuatannya, tersangka telah dijerat dengan pasal 53 jo Pasal 365 KUHP tentang percobaan perampokan dengan hukuman di atas 5 tahun penjara.
Editor : Dian Sukmawati
PELAJAR SMK TEWAS DIBACOK
saco-indonesia.com, Nahas telah menimpa Aditya Setia Budi (Adit), pelajar kelas X SMK Attahirin 2, Ciledug, Tangerang, Banten. A
saco-indonesia.com, Nahas telah menimpa Aditya Setia Budi (Adit), pelajar kelas X SMK Attahirin 2, Ciledug, Tangerang, Banten. Adit tewas setelah menjalani perawatan di RS Fatmawati, Jakarta, Selatan akibat luka bacok di kepala.
Kejadian tersebut berawal saat, Jumat 31 Januari lalu sekira pukul 16.00 WIB sore, Adit bersama empat kawannya telah mengendarai sepeda motor. Saat itu, pelajar yang genap berusia 16 tahun pada 30 Januari 2014 lalu ini berniat ingin pulang dari arah Parung.
"Pas di pertigaan jalan itu, ternyata ada segerombolan anak-anak SMA Bina Bangsa lagi tawuran. Melihat lagi ada ribut-ribut, Adit sama tiga orang temannya langsung mutar balik," ungkap Renita Azhari, keluarga korban kepada wartawan, Kamis (13/2/2014) malam.
Adit dan rekannya telah memutar balik untuk mencari jalan yang lebih aman dan menghindari tawuran. Namun apes, tiba-tiba pelaku tawuran langsung telah melempari Adit dengan batu. Bahkan pelaku tawuran dari SMA Bina Bangsa telah mencegat dan memperlambat laju motor Adit serta ketiga temannya.
"Tiba-tiba dari belakang ada yang bacok pake celurit, dan kena kepala korban (Adit)," imbuhnya.
Adit segera langsung dilarikan ke rumah sakit terdekat oleh teman dan warga sekitar. Tetapi tutur Renita, karena alesan tidak jelas dua rumah sakit malah tidak menerima korban. "Akhirnya dibawa ke klinik dan dapat pertolongan pertama. Dan dirujuk ke RS Fatmawati," bebernya.
Keluarga yang sudah menerima informasi itu dengan cepat langsung membawa Adit ke RS Fatmawati. Setelah dilakukan pemeriksaan oleh dokter, hasilnya korban juga harus menjalani operasi pembukaan tempurung kepala karena ada pendarahan di otak.
"Setelah mengalami penderitaan selama 12 hari dalam keadaan koma Adit meninggal tanggal 10 Februari 2014 jam 23.00 WIB," ucapnya.
Renita juga menuturkan, keluarga juga berharap pihak Kepolisian dapat menangani kasus ini. Bahkan juga dapat mengidentifikasi dan menangkap pelaku pembacok kepala korban. "Keluarga sudah laporan ke Polsek Ciledug. Sudah dilaporkan sejak 12 hari lalu," tutupnya.
Editor : Dian Sukmawati
Asus Rilis Sebuah Tablet Android Murah
saco-indonesia.com, Asus belum mau berhenti
meluncurkan produk tablet dengan harga terjangkau.
Saco-Indonesia.com - Asus belum mau berhenti meluncurkan produk tablet dengan harga terjangkau. Di ajang Computex 2013 Taiwan, Senin (3/6/2013), Asus merilis tablet yang dinamakan MeMo Pad HD 7.
Sesuai dengan namanya, produk yang satu ini hadir dengan bentang layar 7 inci. Jenis yang digunakan adalah IPS dan mendukung resolusi 1280 x 800 piksel.
Dari segi prosesor, MeMo Pad HD 7 menggunakan ARM Cortex A7 quad-core. Sayang tidak disebutkan berapa kecepatannya. Kapasitas RAM-nya pun belum dibeberkan.
Dikutip dari Engadget, Senin (3/6/2013), perangkat ini pun sudah dipersenjatai 2 kamera, 5 megapiksel di bagian belakang dan 1,2 megapiksel di bagian depan. Selain itu, MeMo Pad HD 7 hadir dengan Android 4.0 Ice Cream Sandwich, speaker SonicMaster, Bluetooth 4.0, dan GPS.
Ada dua versi perangkat yang akan dijual oleh Asus. Versi pertama memiliki media penyimpanan internal berkapasitas 32GB yang dijual dengan harga 150 dollar AS atau sekitar Rp 1,5 juta.
Asus juga menyiapkan versi yang lebih terjangkau lagi, yaitu 8GB dengan harga 130 dollar AS atau sekitar Rp 1,3 juta. Versi yang satu ini dikabarkan hanya akan masuk ke pasar berkembang (emerging market), mungkin termasuk Indonesia.
Ini bukan pertama kalinya Asus meluncurkan tablet 7 inci dengan harga terjangkau. Sebelumnya, perusahaan yang berpusat di Taiwan tersebut bekerjasama dengan Google dalam menghasilkan Nexus 7. Perangkat versi 16GB WiFi Only dijual dengan harga 199 dollar AS.
Asus juga pernah meluncurkan 'saudara' dari produk baru ini, yaitu MeMo Pad 7. Produk yang satu ini sudah beredar di Indonesia dengan harga Rp 1,5 juta.
RUDI & SAKSI AKAN DIKONFRONTASI
saco-indonesia.com, Pengadilan tindak pidana korupsi Jakarta akan kembali menggelar sidang lanjutan kasus dugaan suap kepada Rud
saco-indonesia.com, Pengadilan tindak pidana korupsi Jakarta akan kembali menggelar sidang lanjutan kasus dugaan suap kepada Rudi Rubiandini. Agenda sidang kali ini yakni untuk mendengarkan keterangan saksi.
"Saksi yang akan dihadirkan Selasa (hari ini) yakni Simon G Tanjaya dan Deviardi," kata kuasa hukum Rudi, Rusdi A Bakar, saat dikonfirmasi, Selasa (11/2/2014).
Simon adalah bos PT Kernel Oil Indonesia, sedangkan Deviardi adalah pelatih golf Rudi. Saksi lain yang juga bakal dihadirkan yakni Plt Kepala SKK Migas Johanes Widjanarko, Presiden Direktur PT Kaltim Parna Industri (KPI) Artha Meris Simbolon, Deputi Pengendalian Dukungan Bisnis SKK Migas Gerhard Maarten Rumeser, dan Kepala Divisi Penunjang Operasi SKK Migas Iwan Ratman.
Setiap kesaksian yang mereka sampaikan akan dikonfrontasi dengan Rudi Rubiandini.
Rudi didakwa telah menerima uang saat menjabat Kepala SKK Migas guna untuk memuluskan penanganan tender lelang. Di mana, uang suap yang telah diberikan petinggi PT Kernel Oil Singapura Widodo Ratanachaitong sebesar SGD200 ribu dan USD900 ribu diberikan melalui Deviardi.
Selain itu, Rudi juga akan didakwa menerima uang dari Artha Meris Simbolon sebesar USD522.500, lalu dari Johanes Widjanarko SGD600 ribu, Gerhard Rumesser USD150 dan USD200, serta dari Kepala Divisi Penunjang Operasi SKK Migas Iwan Ratman sebesar USD50 ribu.
sidang yang sejatinya digelar pukul 09.00 WIB, hingga pukul 10.45 WIB belum juga dimulai.
Editor : Dian Sukmawati
3 IN 1 SUDAH TIDAK EFEKTIF
saco-indonesia.com, Wakil Gubernur DKI Jakarta, Basuki Tjahaja Purnama (Ahok) telah mengungkapkan penerapan 3 in 1 untuk bisa me
saco-indonesia.com, Wakil Gubernur DKI Jakarta, Basuki Tjahaja Purnama (Ahok) telah mengungkapkan penerapan 3 in 1 untuk bisa membatasi kendaraan di Jakarta tidak efektif. Pada kenyataannya juga masih banyak pemilik kendaraan dengan menggunakan joki untuk bisa melaluinya. Sehingga ini saat yang tepat menerapkan sistem pembatasan kendaraan dengan sistem elektronik.
"Itu nanti akan dihapuskan 3 in 1 sudah sangat tidak efektif. Sudah disurvei tidak efektif. Makanya nanti akan menerapkan ERP (Electronic Road Pricing)," katanya di Balai Kota DKI Jakarta, Senin (23/12).
Dalam penerapan ERP, Kepala Dinas Perhubungan DKI Jakarta Udar Pristono juga mengungkapkan sepakat dengan pernyataan Ahok. Setelah diterapkan baru kemudian ditentukan bagaimana cara untuk membatasi kendaraan. Namun Pristono belum dapat memastikan kapan rencana ini akan bisa dilakukan.
"3 in 1 itu sudah tidak efektif. Karena hanya mengandalkan mata. Hanya mengandalkan orang. Jadi repot. Sekarang yang sedang yang akan diterapkan itu adalah pajak kemacetan atau biasa terkenalnya ERP," ungkapnya.
Pristono juga menambahkan, penerapan ERP sendiri itu tidak mungkin dilakukan dari perbatasan. Tetapi harus dilakukan secara bertahap, dimulai dari tengah dahulu. Dimana angkutan masalnya juga sudah kuat.
"Jadi ERP itu tidak mungkin dilakukan dari pinggir dulu. ERP akan dilakukan dari tengah dulu. Di mana di tengah itu ada massa angkutan umum nya sudah kuat," katanya.
Tujuan dari penerapan dari tengah dulu supaya orang-orang yang menggunakan kendaraan bisa memarkir kendaraannya di pinggiran kota. Karena jalan raya yang ditengah kota sudah menggunakan ERP.
"Jadi terbalik, bukan dari perbatasan dulu tapi dari tengah dulu. Supaya orang markir mobilnya di perbatasan dia naik bus," tandas Pristono.
Editor : Dian Sukmawati
KATA KATA KEHIDUPAN YANG INDAH
Jika terpaksa harus kalah, maka jadilah pecundang terhormat daripada kalah sebelum berjuang. padahal sebenarnya, sahabat berhak
Jika terpaksa harus kalah, maka jadilah pecundang terhormat daripada kalah sebelum berjuang. padahal sebenarnya, sahabat berhak menjadi pemenang mulia.
Jangan meremehkan kesempatan kecil yang muncul di hadapan kita. Ingat, seringkali kesempatan kecil merupakan awal dari kesuksesan yang besar.
Makin banyak kita membuang waktu untuk merasa iri pada bakat ataupun kesuksesan orang lain, maka semakin sulit pula kita berkembang maju. Buang sikap negatif itu!
Jadilah seperti yang kamu inginkan, karena kamu hanya memiliki satu kehidupan dan kesempatan untuk melakukan hal yang ingin kamu inginkan.
Kita dilahirkan dengan 2 buah telinga di kanan dan di kiri, supaya kita dapat mendengarkan semuanya dari dua buah sisi. Untuk berupaya mengumpulkan pujian dan kritikan dan memilih mana yang benar dan mana yang salah.
Kesuksesan diraih dari karja keras kita bukan hanya dari doa yang kita panjatkan
Jangan takut akan kesulitan dalam kehidupanmu, karena itu awal perbaikan dari usaha yang kamu lakukan untuk melewati hal itu
Kesempurnaan dirasakan dgn ketulusan dan keikhlasan menerima apa adanya.
Kehilangan orang yg kita sayangi adalah tempat kita belajar, belajar untuk kuat tanpa dirinya.
Tuhan memuliakan mereka yang mau bekerja keras. Dan modal utama untuk keberhasilan adalah kerja keras yang diiringi doa.
Ruth Rendell, Novelist Who Thrilled and Educated, Dies at 85
Ms. Rendell was a prolific writer of intricately plotted mystery novels that combined psychological insight, social conscience and teeth-chattering terror.
Take the Money and Run
The career criminals in genre novels don’t have money problems. If they need some, they just go out and steal it. But such financial transactions can backfire, which is what happened back in 2004 when the Texas gang in Michael
Meet Mago, Former Heavyweight
GREENWICH, Conn. — Mago is in the bedroom. You can go in.
The big man lies on a hospital bed with his bare feet scraping its bottom rail. His head is propped on a scarlet pillow, the left temple dented, the right side paralyzed. His dark hair is kept just long enough to conceal the scars.
The occasional sounds he makes are understood only by his wife, but he still has that punctuating left hand. In slow motion, the fingers curl and close. A thumbs-up greeting.
This is Magomed Abdusalamov, 34, also known as the Russian Tyson, also known as Mago. He is a former heavyweight boxer who scored four knockouts and 14 technical knockouts in his first 18 professional fights. He preferred to stand between rounds. Sitting conveyed weakness.
But Mago lost his 19th fight, his big chance, at the packed Theater at Madison Square Garden in November 2013. His 19th decision, and his last.
Now here he is, in a small bedroom in a working-class neighborhood in Greenwich, in a modest house his family rents cheap from a devoted friend. The air-pressure machine for his mattress hums like an expectant crowd.
Today is like any other day, except for those days when he is hurried in crisis to the hospital. Every three hours during the night, his slight wife, Bakanay, 28, has risen to turn his 6-foot-3 body — 210 pounds of dead weight. It has to be done. Infections of the gaping bedsore above his tailbone have nearly killed him.
Then, with the help of a young caretaker, Baka has gotten two of their daughters off to elementary school and settled down the toddler. Yes, Mago and Baka are blessed with all girls, but they had also hoped for a son someday.
They feed Mago as they clean him; it’s easier that way. For breakfast, which comes with a side of crushed antiseizure pills, he likes oatmeal with a squirt of Hershey’s chocolate syrup. But even oatmeal must be puréed and fed to him by spoon.
He opens his mouth to indicate more, the way a baby does. But his paralysis has made everything a choking hazard. His water needs a stirring of powdered food thickener, and still he chokes — eh-eh-eh — as he tries to cough up what will not go down.
Mago used to drink only water. No alcohol. Not even soda. A sip of juice would be as far as he dared. Now even water betrays him.
With the caretaker’s help, Baka uses a washcloth and soap to clean his body and shampoo his hair. How handsome still, she has thought. Sometimes, in the night, she leaves the bedroom to watch old videos, just to hear again his voice in the fullness of life. She cries, wipes her eyes and returns, feigning happiness. Mago must never see her sad.
When Baka finishes, Mago is cleanshaven and fresh down to his trimmed and filed toenails. “I want him to look good,” she says.
Theirs was an arranged Muslim marriage in Makhachkala, in the Russian republic of Dagestan. He was 23, she was 18 and their future hinged on boxing. Sometimes they would shadowbox in love, her David to his Goliath. You are so strong, he would tell her.
His father once told him he could either be a bandit or an athlete, but if he chose banditry, “I will kill you.” This paternal advice, Mago later told The Ventura County Reporter, “made it a very easy decision for me.”
Mago won against mediocre competition, in Moscow and Hollywood, Fla., in Las Vegas and Johnstown, Pa. He was knocked down only once, and even then, it surprised more than hurt. He scored a technical knockout in the next round.
It all led up to this: the undercard at the Garden, Mike Perez vs. Magomed Abdusalamov, 10 rounds, on HBO. A win, he believed, would improve his chances of taking on the heavyweight champion Wladimir Klitschko, who sat in the crowd of 4,600 with his fiancée, the actress Hayden Panettiere, watching.
Wearing black-and-red trunks and a green mouth guard, Mago went to work. But in the first round, a hard forearm to his left cheek rocked him. At the bell, he returned to his corner, and this time, he sat down. “I think it’s broken,” he repeatedly said in Russian.
Maybe at that point, somebody — the referee, the ringside doctors, his handlers — should have stopped the fight, under a guiding principle: better one punch too early than one punch too late. But the bloody trade of blows continued into the seventh, eighth, ninth, a hand and orbital bone broken, his face transforming.
Meanwhile, in the family’s apartment in Miami, Baka forced herself to watch the broadcast. She could see it in his swollen eyes. Something was off.
After the final round, Perez raised his tattooed arms in victory, and Mago wandered off in a fog. He had taken 312 punches in about 40 minutes, for a purse of $40,000.
In the locker room, doctors sutured a cut above Mago’s left eye and tested his cognitive abilities. He did not do well. The ambulance that waits in expectation at every fight was not summoned by boxing officials.
Blood was pooling in Mago’s cranial cavity as he left the Garden. He vomited on the pavement while his handlers flagged a taxi to St. Luke’s-Roosevelt Hospital. There, doctors induced a coma and removed part of his skull to drain fluids and ease the swelling.
Then came the stroke.
It is lunchtime now, and the aroma of puréed beef and potatoes lingers. So do the questions.
How will Mago and Baka pay the $2 million in medical bills they owe? What if their friend can no longer offer them this home? Will they win their lawsuits against the five ringside doctors, the referee, and a New York State boxing inspector? What about Mago’s future care?
Most of all: Is this it?
A napkin rests on Mago’s chest. As another spoonful of mush approaches, he opens his mouth, half-swallows, chokes, and coughs until it clears. Eh-eh-eh. Sometimes he turns bluish, but Baka never shows fear. Always happy for Mago.
Some days he is wheeled out for physical therapy or speech therapy. Today, two massage therapists come to knead his half-limp body like a pair of skilled corner men.
Soon, Mago will doze. Then his three daughters, ages 2, 6 and 9, will descend upon him to talk of their day. Not long ago, the oldest lugged his championship belt to school for a proud show-and-tell moment. Her classmates were amazed at the weight of it.
Then, tonight, there will be more puréed food and pulverized medication, more coughing, and more tender care from his wife, before sleep comes.
He half-smiles, raises his one good hand, and forms a fist.
Gilbert Haroche, Builder of an Economy Travel Empire, Dies at 87
Mr. Haroche was a founder of Liberty Travel, which grew from a two-man operation to the largest leisure travel operation in the United States.
Suzanne Crough, Actress in ‘The Partridge Family,’ Dies at 52
Ms. Crough played the youngest daughter on the hit ’70s sitcom starring David Cassidy and Shirley Jones.
Dave Goldberg Was Lifelong Women’s Advocate
Even as a high school student, Dave Goldberg was urging female classmates to speak up. As a young dot-com executive, he had one girlfriend after another, but fell hard for a driven friend named Sheryl Sandberg, pining after her for years. After they wed, Mr. Goldberg pushed her to negotiate hard for high compensation and arranged his schedule so that he could be home with their children when she was traveling for work.
Mr. Goldberg, who died unexpectedly on Friday, was a genial, 47-year-old Silicon Valley entrepreneur who built his latest company, SurveyMonkey, from a modest enterprise to one recently valued by investors at $2 billion. But he was also perhaps the signature male feminist of his era: the first major chief executive in memory to spur his wife to become as successful in business as he was, and an essential figure in “Lean In,” Ms. Sandberg’s blockbuster guide to female achievement.
Over the weekend, even strangers were shocked at his death, both because of his relatively young age and because they knew of him as the living, breathing, car-pooling center of a new philosophy of two-career marriage.
“They were very much the role models for what this next generation wants to grapple with,” said Debora L. Spar, the president of Barnard College. In a 2011 commencement speech there, Ms. Sandberg told the graduates that whom they married would be their most important career decision.
In the play “The Heidi Chronicles,” revived on Broadway this spring, a male character who is the founder of a media company says that “I don’t want to come home to an A-plus,” explaining that his ambitions require him to marry an unthreatening helpmeet. Mr. Goldberg grew up to hold the opposite view, starting with his upbringing in progressive Minneapolis circles where “there was woman power in every aspect of our lives,” Jeffrey Dachis, a childhood friend, said in an interview.
The Goldberg parents read “The Feminine Mystique” together — in fact, Mr. Goldberg’s father introduced it to his wife, according to Ms. Sandberg’s book. In 1976, Paula Goldberg helped found a nonprofit to aid children with disabilities. Her husband, Mel, a law professor who taught at night, made the family breakfast at home.
Later, when Dave Goldberg was in high school and his prom date, Jill Chessen, stayed silent in a politics class, he chastised her afterward. He said, “You need to speak up,” Ms. Chessen recalled in an interview. “They need to hear your voice.”
Years later, when Karin Gilford, an early employee at Launch Media, Mr. Goldberg’s digital music company, became a mother, he knew exactly what to do. He kept giving her challenging assignments, she recalled, but also let her work from home one day a week. After Yahoo acquired Launch, Mr. Goldberg became known for distributing roses to all the women in the office on Valentine’s Day.
Ms. Sandberg, who often describes herself as bossy-in-a-good-way, enchanted him when they became friendly in the mid-1990s. He “was smitten with her,” Ms. Chessen remembered. Ms. Sandberg was dating someone else, but Mr. Goldberg still hung around, even helping her and her then-boyfriend move, recalled Bob Roback, a friend and co-founder of Launch. When they finally married in 2004, friends remember thinking how similar the two were, and that the qualities that might have made Ms. Sandberg intimidating to some men drew Mr. Goldberg to her even more.
Over the next decade, Mr. Goldberg and Ms. Sandberg pioneered new ways of capturing information online, had a son and then a daughter, became immensely wealthy, and hashed out their who-does-what-in-this-marriage issues. Mr. Goldberg’s commute from the Bay Area to Los Angeles became a strain, so he relocated, later joking that he “lost the coin flip” of where they would live. He paid the bills, she planned the birthday parties, and both often left their offices at 5:30 so they could eat dinner with their children before resuming work afterward.
Friends in Silicon Valley say they were careful to conduct their careers separately, politely refusing when outsiders would ask one about the other’s work: Ms. Sandberg’s role building Facebook into an information and advertising powerhouse, and Mr. Goldberg at SurveyMonkey, which made polling faster and cheaper. But privately, their work was intertwined. He often began statements to his team with the phrase “Well, Sheryl said” sharing her business advice. He counseled her, too, starting with her salary negotiations with Mark Zuckerberg.
“I wanted Mark to really feel he stretched to get Sheryl, because she was worth it,” Mr. Goldberg explained in a 2013 “60 Minutes” interview, his Minnesota accent and his smile intact as he offered a rare peek of the intersection of marriage and money at the top of corporate life.
While his wife grew increasingly outspoken about women’s advancement, Mr. Goldberg quietly advised the men in the office on family and partnership matters, an associate said. Six out of 16 members of SurveyMonkey’s management team are female, an almost unheard-of ratio among Silicon Valley “unicorns,” or companies valued at over $1 billion.
When Mellody Hobson, a friend and finance executive, wrote a chapter of “Lean In” about women of color for the college edition of the book, Mr. Goldberg gave her feedback on the draft, a clue to his deep involvement. He joked with Ms. Hobson that she was too long-winded, like Ms. Sandberg, but aside from that, he said he loved the chapter, she said in an interview.
By then, Mr. Goldberg was a figure of fascination who inspired a “where can I get one of those?” reaction among many of the women who had read the best seller “Lean In.” Some lamented that Ms. Sandberg’s advice hinged too much on marrying a Dave Goldberg, who was humble enough to plan around his wife, attentive enough to worry about which shoes his young daughter would wear, and rich enough to help pay for the help that made the family’s balancing act manageable.
Now that he is gone, and Ms. Sandberg goes from being half of a celebrated partnership to perhaps the business world’s most prominent single mother, the pages of “Lean In” carry a new sting of loss.
“We are never at 50-50 at any given moment — perfect equality is hard to define or sustain — but we allow the pendulum to swing back and forth between us,” she wrote in 2013, adding that they were looking forward to raising teenagers together.
“Fortunately, I have Dave to figure it out with me,” she wrote.
Ex-C.I.A. Official Rebuts Republican Claims on Benghazi Attack in ‘The Great War of Our Time’
WASHINGTON — The former deputy director of the C.I.A. asserts in a forthcoming book that Republicans, in their eagerness to politicize the killing of the American ambassador to Libya, repeatedly distorted the agency’s analysis of events. But he also argues that the C.I.A. should get out of the business of providing “talking points” for administration officials in national security events that quickly become partisan, as happened after the Benghazi attack in 2012.
The official, Michael J. Morell, dismisses the allegation that the United States military and C.I.A. officers “were ordered to stand down and not come to the rescue of their comrades,” and he says there is “no evidence” to support the charge that “there was a conspiracy between C.I.A. and the White House to spin the Benghazi story in a way that would protect the political interests of the president and Secretary Clinton,” referring to the secretary of state at the time, Hillary Rodham Clinton.
But he also concludes that the White House itself embellished some of the talking points provided by the Central Intelligence Agency and had blocked him from sending an internal study of agency conclusions to Congress.
“I finally did so without asking,” just before leaving government, he writes, and after the White House released internal emails to a committee investigating the State Department’s handling of the issue.
A lengthy congressional investigation remains underway, one that many Republicans hope to use against Mrs. Clinton in the 2016 election cycle.
In parts of the book, “The Great War of Our Time” (Twelve), Mr. Morell praises his C.I.A. colleagues for many successes in stopping terrorist attacks, but he is surprisingly critical of other C.I.A. failings — and those of the National Security Agency.
Soon after Mr. Morell retired in 2013 after 33 years in the agency, President Obama appointed him to a commission reviewing the actions of the National Security Agency after the disclosures of Edward J. Snowden, a former intelligence contractor who released classified documents about the government’s eavesdropping abilities. Mr. Morell writes that he was surprised by what he found.
“You would have thought that of all the government entities on the planet, the one least vulnerable to such grand theft would have been the N.S.A.,” he writes. “But it turned out that the N.S.A. had left itself vulnerable.”
He concludes that most Wall Street firms had better cybersecurity than the N.S.A. had when Mr. Snowden swept information from its systems in 2013. While he said he found himself “chagrined by how well the N.S.A. was doing” compared with the C.I.A. in stepping up its collection of data on intelligence targets, he also sensed that the N.S.A., which specializes in electronic spying, was operating without considering the implications of its methods.
“The N.S.A. had largely been collecting information because it could, not necessarily in all cases because it should,” he says.
Mr. Morell was a career analyst who rose through the ranks of the agency, and he ended up in the No. 2 post. He served as President George W. Bush’s personal intelligence briefer in the first months of his presidency — in those days, he could often be spotted at the Starbucks in Waco, Tex., catching up on his reading — and was with him in the schoolhouse in Florida on the morning of Sept. 11, 2001, when the Bush presidency changed in an instant.
Mr. Morell twice took over as acting C.I.A. director, first when Leon E. Panetta was appointed secretary of defense and then when retired Gen. David H. Petraeus resigned over an extramarital affair with his biographer, a relationship that included his handing her classified notes of his time as America’s best-known military commander.
Mr. Morell says he first learned of the affair from Mr. Petraeus only the night before he resigned, and just as the Benghazi events were turning into a political firestorm. While praising Mr. Petraeus, who had told his deputy “I am very lucky” to run the C.I.A., Mr. Morell writes that “the organization did not feel the same way about him.” The former general “created the impression through the tone of his voice and his body language that he did not want people to disagree with him (which was not true in my own interaction with him),” he says.
But it is his account of the Benghazi attacks — and how the C.I.A. was drawn into the debate over whether the Obama White House deliberately distorted its account of the death of Ambassador J. Christopher Stevens — that is bound to attract attention, at least partly because of its relevance to the coming presidential election. The initial assessments that the C.I.A. gave to the White House said demonstrations had preceded the attack. By the time analysts reversed their opinion, Susan E. Rice, now the national security adviser, had made a series of statements on Sunday talk shows describing the initial assessment. The controversy and other comments Ms. Rice made derailed Mr. Obama’s plan to appoint her as secretary of state.
The experience prompted Mr. Morell to write that the C.I.A. should stay out of the business of preparing talking points — especially on issues that are being seized upon for “political purposes.” He is critical of the State Department for not beefing up security in Libya for its diplomats, as the C.I.A., he said, did for its employees.
But he concludes that the assault in which the ambassador was killed took place “with little or no advance planning” and “was not well organized.” He says the attackers “did not appear to be looking for Americans to harm. They appeared intent on looting and conducting some vandalism,” setting fires that killed Mr. Stevens and a security official, Sean Smith.
Mr. Morell paints a picture of an agency that was struggling, largely unsuccessfully, to understand dynamics in the Middle East and North Africa when the Arab Spring broke out in late 2011 in Tunisia. The agency’s analysts failed to see the forces of revolution coming — and then failed again, he writes, when they told Mr. Obama that the uprisings would undercut Al Qaeda by showing there was a democratic pathway to change.
“There is no good explanation for our not being able to see the pressures growing to dangerous levels across the region,” he writes. The agency had again relied too heavily “on a handful of strong leaders in the countries of concern to help us understand what was going on in the Arab street,” he says, and those leaders themselves were clueless.
Moreover, an agency that has always overvalued secretly gathered intelligence and undervalued “open source” material “was not doing enough to mine the wealth of information available through social media,” he writes. “We thought and told policy makers that this outburst of popular revolt would damage Al Qaeda by undermining the group’s narrative,” he writes.
Instead, weak governments in Egypt, and the absence of governance from Libya to Yemen, were “a boon to Islamic extremists across both the Middle East and North Africa.”
Mr. Morell is gentle about most of the politicians he dealt with — he expresses admiration for both Mr. Bush and Mr. Obama, though he accuses former Vice President Dick Cheney of deliberately implying a connection between Al Qaeda and Iraq that the C.I.A. had concluded probably did not exist. But when it comes to the events leading up to the Bush administration’s decision to go to war in Iraq, he is critical of his own agency.
Mr. Morell concludes that the Bush White House did not have to twist intelligence on Saddam Hussein’s alleged effort to rekindle the country’s work on weapons of mass destruction.
“The view that hard-liners in the Bush administration forced the intelligence community into its position on W.M.D. is just flat wrong,” he writes. “No one pushed. The analysts were already there and they had been there for years, long before Bush came to office.”
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